Couples often have a hard time meeting one another’s attachment needs. When communication breaks down, and attachment needs go unmet, one or both partners can look outside the relationship for what they are longing for. In time, this can lead to infidelity, which is one of the most traumatic experiences for couples.
At Deep Connections Counseling, we take a non-judgmental approach towards the underlying causes of infidelity. We help couples create a more secure bond by teaching them emotional responsiveness, which is turning towards one another in moments of need instead of disconnecting and seeking comfort outside the relationship. We help couples understand the emotional and physical reasons for disconnection and we introduce them to the strategies for creating safe and secure attachments.
It important to know that we will not shame the unfaithful spouse nor blame the betrayed spouse. This is a safe place for both of you to heal.